Our Day-to-Day Balance of Working, Parenting, and Playing

For the first ten-ish months of our trip, Brian and I split schedules so that we could both freelance part-time and hang out with Theo part-time.*  Most days looked like this:

7:00 am (ish) – Theo wakes us. We try to convince him that it is time to relax and snuggle, and he tries to convince us that it is time for breakfast. After 10 minutes or so, Theo wins.

8:00 am – Parent 1 watches Theo for the morning while Parent 2 works (or sometimes explores solo.)

12:30 pm – Lunch, often together and generally cooked by Parent 1.

1:30 pm – We put Theo down for his nap or quiet time.** Sometimes, he stays in his room! Parents work.

3:30 pm (ish) – Theo wakes up and Parent 2 watches him while Parent 1 works or explores.

7:00 pm – Dinner together, generally cooked by Parent 2.

7:45 pm (ish) – We put Theo down for sleep. Sometimes, he stays in his room! We work, play, or read until bed.

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Toddler Friendships

Theo’s past friendships have mostly involved close-proximity independent play, with occasional forays into grabbing toys out of one another’s hands. Honestly, when you’re a toddler, adults are generally more useful and accommodating than your peers. (That being said, Theo does still ask about kids from his daycare, so the desire to connect is there in at least the abstract sense.)

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Coffee and Solitude

While I love everyone I’m traveling with, I do still sometimes feel overwhelmed by the sheer amount of daily togetherness.

I’ve been involuntarily waking between 5 and 6 am most mornings. Recently, instead of trying (and failing) to fall back asleep, I’ve been using the time to drink coffee in the hammock while enjoying the solitude, periodically interrupted only by hummingbirds, macaws, lizards, and (less welcome) wasps.

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